Oneness Foundation
In response to the publication of the Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare’s survey on gambling addiction, we have summarized the actual state of addiction (words and actions at the time) and how families and people around them interact with each other.
Words and actions used to justify gambling, methods of dialogue, and contact information
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On August 30th, the Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare released a report (preliminary report) on the “Survey on Gambling Disorders and Gambling-Related Problems.” In response to this announcement, the Oneness Foundation (General Incorporated Foundation, Yamatotakada City, Nara Prefecture, Nanjo City, Okinawa Prefecture, etc.), a specialized organization that supports people with low well-being and mental health issues, to eliminate loneliness and achieve
self-actualization, has announced the following: (Representatives: Hiroki Ito, Takayuki Miyake, Keisuke Izumi) will share the experiences of people with gambling addiction (online gambling/internet gambling) who are actually facing the challenges of gambling addiction (online gambling/internet gambling) at facilities affiliated with the foundation, and especially the stories of their families and people around them. We have compiled a list of “how should we interact with each other” and will present them here.
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In particular, I think many people will feel uncomfortable with the next section, which talks about what kind of lies and deceit they used at the time and what kind of words and actions they used to justify their addiction. For those who are currently suffering from addiction, these words may sound painful and harsh.
We hope that the situation will improve, and we would appreciate it if this information could reach those who need it.
How to lie and cheat when gambling funds are short-circuited First, I will share some of the lies and cheats I have told when I ran out of gambling funds. Among them, the excuse that most people used was ``I dropped/lost my wallet.'' It's also the most popular lie. ・I dropped/lost my wallet.
・I was snatched.
・The company I work for is late in paying my salary, so I would like to borrow it temporarily.
・My family has become ill.
- (While hiding his gambling) He went around complaining to his neighbors, co-workers, and family members that he didn't have enough money to eat.
・You are paying your company's expenses in advance and don't have enough cash on hand until the expenses are settled.
・I used my child's school fees.
・I lost a little bit of money gambling, so I'd like you to lend it to me. ・I made a big deal about the troubles that actually occurred and raised money. (The estimate for car repair was 50,000 yen. But I told my parents that I needed 100,000 yen.)
What words and actions did you use to justify gambling?
・The causes of my stress are all around me. I have no choice but to gamble in order to feel refreshed.
・I asked for help from my family (I intended to), but they didn't help me at all. So I thought it couldn't be helped.
・It's my parents' fault that I'm like this. I behaved badly towards myself in the past. So it's okay to use your parents' money (for gambling or debt).
・(While looking at the other people at the pachinko parlor) I'm still working and I'm not in as bad of a situation as these guys, so it's okay.
-Gambling is not illegal, so there is no need to stop.
・It's okay because the type of gambling I do is better than other types of gambling.
・I do it for socializing.
- Gambling isn't bad, it's because you have debt that it's a problem. Once you pay off your debt, you can start gambling again.
・I used to think that people who don't gamble are boring people. ・FX is asset management, not gambling.
・There is no place to stay at home. It only has a place in gambling parlors and online casinos.
Could your family or someone around you be addicted to gambling? If you think so The individual cannot take full responsibility on his own. As a result, people around you (especially those close to you) may become involved. How should you respond if someone close to you actually shows signs of addiction?
I (eye) message
It is often ineffective for those around you to become anxious or emotional, get angry and suppress the other person (the person), or forcibly give instructions. Therefore, the method we recommend is the ``I message'' (a self-centered way of thinking that says ``I think this way'').
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https://line.me/R/ti/p/%40amf5585p ●Oneness Foundation Free consultation email: sos@oneness-g.com You can think about positive next steps, such as sharing your anxiety and stress and putting it aside, or thinking about other ways to interact together.Seminars, individual consultation sessions, family gatherings, etc. in various locations
Some people may be reluctant to suddenly contact a specialist. The Oneness Foundation holds seminars, individual counseling sessions, and family meetings (meetings for “families” of people who are
experiencing difficulties in their lives) all over the country. ●Oneness Foundation event information: https://oneness-g.com/events ●Family group information: https://oneness-g.com/dependence/group/ ●For those who would like to learn more about how to interact with the parties involved, click here: https://oneness-g.com/kakawarikata/ Finally, a message to those involved
We have suffered just like you, and like you, we have placed great burdens on our families and those around us. I think this announcement includes harsh words and words that you don’t want to see.
At that time, we couldn’t believe even 1% of our potential. However, I have begun to take steps toward eliminating loneliness and
self-actualization, and I am now working with a sincere desire to create a world where everyone can believe in their potential and freely demonstrate their potential, without locking it up.
That’s why, at this moment, I believe that we, who were involved in the incident, have a responsibility to announce to society an embarrassing fact that we want to avoid. I apologize if anyone feels uncomfortable or angry. We hope that this announcement will reach those who need this information.
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